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Originally Posted by charliex  i use the term relationship loosely, basically what i meant is you know where youre going with the relationship. and like stated above by wetnwild some younger girls develope the idea of exclusitivity, but thats an opinion. in my opinion wnw, some older women do that too! im starting to think youre a good cougar and not looking for advice. im just posting this for women who want to know what i think is the ideal cougar. getting back to the 5 date thing like i said if you dont find out what the person is looking for early(communication) then after a few dates in my opinion and experiences women tend to develope that sense of exclusivity, and you know i would most likely too. if youre not looking for a serious relationship just a "friend" then even without talking about it before the fifth date, in my opinion, you would be past the point of dating.
oh and violet i saw you were from iceland and my mind wandered, hehe def not a bad thing! |
Okay, so I think it all boils down to chemistry... I might see someone 3 or 4 times before I figure out if they are 'right' for me. So 5 dates doesn't seem like something 'exculsive', OTOH if I happened on Mr. Right on date 1, and by that I mean we are both feeling the chemistry, get along well, etc... Date 2 may just make me think... yep, I'd like to keep this one. So, I think it depends on a lot of things. I do think the key is saying what you are looking for up front.