There are a multitude of reasons so all I can tell you is how I feel and why I respond to some and not others. It is a burnout of sorts for me, I get many guys wanting to chat and get to know me when they live so far away and have no intention of visiting - chatting is not my goal so I dont respond to those who live so far away they wont get to me. That is one reason. Another is if a guy says something in his introduction to me that makes it so obvious he did not read my profile - that is a turn off right off the bat.
A woman wants to see the guy actually is considering her words. |