It seems like a lot of these problems would be easily solved if admin would just not ALLOW them (the young women) to be members on this site. But I suppose their argument would be something along the lines of....at what age do we determine if someone is too young or too old to be considered a cougar or a cub. Because we all know we have differences of opinions on that. But it seems VERY OBVIOUS to most of us that women in their 20's are NOT cougars (like bayridge said, what are they looking for).