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Originally Posted by tarni  Going to bars and clubs are not the only places you will find olderwomen who love NSARs - there are other websites that actually maybe more suited for you. Keep doing your searches and you will find them. Your thinking is not unusual - by a long shot. |
I agree. But in all of the online profiles that I have seen from older women looking for younger men only one clearly stated she wanted a no string relationship and in talking to her (She actually sent me a message), I found out that she was marred with kids and wanted some side action with a younger guy. I found her myspace page and she made some lame ass excuse to stop talking to me.
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Originally Posted by ramblinruby Even though I don't consume alcohol, I do go to bars and clubs for the dancing and live music that is offered. Just because a woman is in such places is no guarantee either that she is out prowling for a "fling." You must engage in conversation and get a feel for where the person is coming from. Just keep it honest like you are doing.
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I know that not every single person at the bar/club is not looking for a NSA relationship (unless its a sex bar/club). I am just saying that is the most likely place to find them in real life.
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Originally Posted by toriw I think you have good perception jurupa! on the b/f - g/f thing. |
Thank you, you may be surprise where I learned such things.
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Even if its a "friend with benefits" relationship, most people (this includes males) want some level of relationship or understanding. It would be hopeful that you want experience beyond just sexual. there is much more to learn from a mature woman than sex.
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The whole friends with benefits thing cracks me up because you might as well date the person casually. As far as older women goes, some guys can't take in or handle the things they can get/learn from an older woman.