[valerie]

I hear you totally Roman...I'm going through something like that as I write. The dude was crazy about me. He was constantly telling me how much I made him FEEL. Then we had a little conflict and he goes POOF! Deleted his profile from GC and has not contacted me since yesterday. OK I know that sounds silly...just one day apart and she's flipping out....but this is a guy who would stay up til all hours of the morning even though he had to work that day...just to talk to me. Our conversation flowed because we liked the same things and FELT things a lot alike as well. I wouldn't think he had left entirely if it weren't for the profile deletion. I thought he was just digesting whatever he needed, not packing his cyber suitcase! To me, that is the WORST kind of breakup...when they don't give you the closure you need and deserve, so you have to search for a way to find it yourself. And to think that he may have left because he was in love with me and couldn't see himself giving me the future together that I deserve....that's pretty sad.

By the way....I almost didn't comment here because I thought it was kind of a depressing thread, considering my current predicament, but maybe some people can give some suggestions on how to work this out in my head.