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Originally Posted by charliex you definately dont go on 5 dates with a guy and not expect something serious, sorry but it youre into seeing different guys then i dont think there would be a 5th date or even a 2nd or 3rd(meaning its about the sex). to me the idea that a woman and i are on our 5th date and she's still seeing someone else would have me ending the night as respectfully as possible!
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Charlie, I can see your point, however I guess that is one of the differences between us, with the age gap. Having been married and divorced I think maybe I don't take things so seriously as fast as maybe a younger person would. Also, I was not talking about ME personally in that comment I made. In general, I do not tend to date more than one person at a time.
As far as the "you cougars have a reputation to keep", sorry but personally I do not worry one little iota about keeping up anyone's image of what a cougar should or shouldn't be. I am just myself and the other person will either like it or not. Why bother to pretend to be something you're not?