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Originally Posted by wetnwild  Well personally I don't see that as a "woman" thing at all. And I also don't think its NECESSARILY rude (of course depending on the exact circumstances). If he just EXPECTED her to be dating only him, then it wasn't really rude of her, was it? I don't think the NUMBER of dates has anything to do with exclusivity. I say kudos to her for at least being honest about it! |
you definately dont go on 5 dates with a guy and not expect something serious, sorry but it youre into seeing different guys then i dont think there would be a 5th date or even a 2nd or 3rd(meaning its about the sex). to me the idea that a woman and i are on our 5th date and she's still seeing someone else would have me ending the night as respectfully as possible!
oh and im 22 still just a little timid with older women, esp gorgeous ones. now lets face it, a lot of guys are into women who are older cause they'll take charge and let you know what they want, well thats the hype at least! my experience is not that way. now while ive been with older women, ive never had that kind of intimidation, which is what im looking for! cougars you have a reputation to keep!
another thing that is a BIG deal, dont talk about other cubs youve seen or may see even if youre just trying to use em as an example, just say you dont likit when guys..., dont talk about your neighbor who you watched grow up and is now the same age as me, i hate that one!!! and dont expect a guy to notice a new hairstyle unless its really different! trimming the hair an inch is not worth getting upset cause i didnt notice!