Agreed! I am so sorry for the pain you all went through. I know all too well what it's like. If this guy is wondering why he has this obsession, I would recommend a shrink. His whole, neat little world is about to implode/explode.....and his "family" will be the most hard-hit casualties along with friends, colleagues and other people in his "circle." This has such a devastating ripple effect and has the far-reaching consequences you mentioned. My heart aches for his family, especially..

RR