[tiffanyfontaine]

Hello Matt,

I spend a lot of time in Costa Mesa and the OC. I lived there for years and now live close.
But, no offense to you, I'm a bit tired of young men assuming that simply because they
appear and announce they're looking for a "hot cougar," all of the women on this site
will come charging to them like a herd of wild animals. Cougar doesn't mean desperate
or sexually promiscuous. It doesn't mean that a seasoned woman salivates over every younger man who shows up on her radar. You need to woo us and romance us as you would a younger woman. So, please, work on a compelling profile, post a couple of clear pictures of yourself without you wearing sunglasses and hat, showing your face, not just your naked abs or pelvis. Then, maybe, one of us discriminating, mature women will consider giving you some of our time.