I've got an uncle who was married with a wife of his own age and she took all his money and the children. Then, he divorced her and has been living for over 15 years with a girl 25 years his junior and is very happy. One weight 2 measures here. When it's a man it's ok. So sorry about it Cinders. My brothers have always tease me for being oggled by younger guys so I understand your feelings. Women are always treated much more unfairly. I hope you both overcome the odds! Take care xxx