Wetnwild ( I like this name...)
I'm cool, I know you are not picking on me.
And all ur arguments are right.
However one thing: We are currently living in a society which does not tolerate certain things. Some may get offended others chocked.
Now, when you said: If someone you know is on this site and they see your pic, well then why are THEY are on this site?
Yea true but what if that person tells people, lol, my uni (college in US lol) has about 80 000 students.. and I know a lot of guys checking out websites like that..
If they see me, what would they do lol --> well pretty obviously spreading rumours. Just for fun

so it will kill my reputation. Don't get me wrong we all care about our own reputation, denying this is lying
Now, by doing this, it increases the probability that eventually some people which you don't want them to know this will find out.
And I don't want to justify my actions; why and how; I have to work this out not them

I'm more fine with it.
And for jonm87 lol funny guy with a funny pic... what are you trying to proove, you're the cool guy holding a beer huh