that the site was designed with some ideas that aimed to make it more of a social network type of site but, it never took off that way. The site is extremely slow to load on the goC side with the friends lists etc. The social aspect of it seems sort of silly when you are actually here to "date" not make a bunch of "friends". I don't see the point in collecting comments and links to other people's profiles when you are looking for a potential relationship. Oh, and luna's point on inane comments is quite valid it's also true for some of the photo comments. We are after all supposed to be grown ups.
