I think you need to find a better quality of personality test luna :P
People both plan and do things at the last minute without the negative insinuations implied in both questions. I do both and I have good reason to do both at the point I do them..it's not about being selfish or destructive. The key is to communicate and explain so there are no negative suppositions for the other person to jump to. Or, rather, if there is, then it's not to do with you but to do with the lack of trust in the other person.
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