Sometimes you can't put bearing on a genuine connection and maturity. There is a lot to be taken into consideration, as far getting into something deep with a cougar/cub. I will say this though, you can speculate and debate until we're blue in the face, about the pros/cons/what ifs. But realistically, there's only one way to find out.
Just put it on the table and be cut and dry about what you want and expect. They accept it or reject it. Either way, they'll respect it.
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