[sonia]

I don't really know where or when the term 'cougar' was coined and what its original meaning was. So the guy meant that the definition of cougar is an older woman who is only looking for sex with younger men, therefore older women looking for actual relationships with younger men would never be labelled cougars? I wonder how many guys are under the same impression which means that they would assume all the women on this site are just looking for casual sex or at least be willing to have sex with anyone they meet from here very soon after meeting ie we must be 'sluts' - as I recall a GC woman was referred to by an extremely ignorant young man as noted in another thread - so they can 'hit and run' so to speak. So even if we say we want a relationship they will just play along not really believing it? How unfortunate. But he is right in saying that 9 years is an insignificant age difference. And please enlighten this ignorant UK cousin - what does carded mean?