OK, so I did understand you correctly then. You're basically saying its "natural" for us older woman to push younger guys away. That it's "natural" for us to try to find a reason to not let ourselves fall for a younger guy correct?
I have to completely disagree with you!! I, for one, completely EMBRACE the idea of falling for a younger guy! That is what I am actively looking for, and it is the reason I am on this site! I personally do not care what my parents or my friends think about it, I certainly could care less what society thinks, and as for my daughter....well she just needs to get used to it. She doesn't like the idea but that is HER problem, not mine. If your friends have a problem with it, well, they weren't really your friends to start with. And as for parents, I have never worried about what mine think. I guess I've always been a bit of a rebel that way. And society? They can kiss my a$$!! It's MY life and no one elses. I am actively looking for a relationship with a younger guy so it's not fair to say that its natural for us older women to push them away because we are not ALL pushing them away! I am trying to pull them (well ONE) towards me! It's just a part of who I am, being attracted to younger guys, so it never even entered my mind to push them away!!
When I imagine myself being in an actual relationship with someone I KNOW it's going be with a much younger guy because that is the only choice my heart can make!! That is what is NATURAL for me.
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