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Originally Posted by mizbehavin  I have to disagree with you, Crimson, at least personally. Sexual chemistry and attraction are not what I base the beginning of a relationship on. I base it on intelligence, how they carry and portray themselves, and many other things first. I also do not base "attractive" on physical looks. The media has us so screwed up on that anyway.
Not talking to people because you are not attracted to them kindof makes you shallow, I think. I'll talk to anyone, doesn't matter what they look like because they are people. Have you seen "Shallow Hal" btw?  It's the insides of people that count, the outside is just a package.
And what the hell does sex have to do with anything working or not? If you're basing a relationship, any kind of relationship, on sex..it is bound to fail. There is so much more than that. |
How can you know the intelligence of a person until you approach them though?
Does this mean you approach anyone and everyone?
Surely how attractive someone is has to be at a basis in some point of any "pull" that you have towards someone.
Granted like I said it isnt always a very important thing. but does it not always exist and is it always (to some degree, atleast for me) existant, especially in the early stages and as time goes on becomes less and less relevant.
and you might have misunderstood my sex point, what I meant is literally that sex is a part of a relationship not that it is something that a relationship depends on necessarily but it is however something that defines a relationship. How you and the other person intertwine.