Just wanted to say that I dislike the term Cougar too....implies society's view of older women as "man eaters"......seems this is the way media portrays a situation where the woman is oder than her man....it also implies some sort of desparation unless you are a wealthy or famous person in which case whatever they do is in the end ok...What about people who connect no matter what their age?
There is beauty in every stage of life...I just wish men would take better care of themselves physically and spiritually as they age....but that's just me