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Old 01-24-2010, 08:33 PM
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Luna, thank you for posting this cause it is something that I wish I could have read before jumping into the online dating pool.

I believe one of the main things I have had to learn is never be surprised at what you see or what is said. If you do not want sexual talk say so and if you are sharing photos make it very clear that you do not want to see any nudes. Now that being said there is always the ones who will try anything just to get a reaction and all of a sudden they ask a dirty question or a nude pops up(no pun intended). Do not feel that any of this is your fault and you are not alone in this happening. My reaction is "you just got youself not able to talk to me". They are going to come back saying how sorry they are and they thought you wanted to see that photo. blah blah blah NEVER allow anyone to be rude or disrespect you. There is so many people online looking for some cyber anything and it is up to you to set the boundries. I have found some really good people online male and female but those are few and far between. Men and women can be just as bad as the other so it is up to you where you put yourself in this crazy worldwide web of dating.

Just MHO...
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