Appearance doesn't necessarily affect friendship. Getting to know someone better as a friend can (possibly) lead to overlooking/rethinking what's "attractive" or not, but no attraction = no romance: it's not fair, or logical, it's not politically correct, but it's just that way.
And we've all probably been on both sides of this: desiring but not being desired/being desired but not desiring.
Yes, it's obvious ("the discovery of hot water", like they say in Italy).
But there it is!
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