True about appearance, but I'm extrapolating that to basically every little characteristic about people that we get to know.
The whole idea of older women and younger men is seen internally as open-minded. It seems anything but to go from liking a person on so many levels, to avoiding them completely over one thing that isn't perfect about the person, irrespective of what that is.
That's kind of why I'm saying that the outward appearance of open-mindedness sometimes isn't matched by the behaviour that we exhibit when we find out truths about other people.
I hope I hadn't made myself too unclear.... confused myself a couple of times there.
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