I think it is human nature that we are first attracted to the person's appearance, however, with that being said, if you like the person and have common intersts, why can't you just continue to be friends online? There is no reason to back away from people because of issues of their appearance. Establish boundries and tell them you want to get to know them, and if things such as their appearance pops up and you can't deal, let them know you want to be just friends. There is no written rule that says when we talk to people online that it has to lead to romance.
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