Tarni,
We've been separated as in living apart for those 8 months. Heck, he's got dates set up and I"m the one who's cheating
As for the clothes thing, he's never bought me anything really, so that doesn't count..and the rest of the sex toys that were mine he has locked up in a safe at his house, and has since the day he moved out. So all I have is my new BOF..sigh..but yes, if I did have any from him I would throw them all out.
Hey wait a minute, if I find a new man, maybe I won't need them anymore! Might add a little spice though