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Originally Posted by tarni  Accepting a gift of that intimate a nature from a man OTHER THAN your husband IS cheating! When she uses it she will be reminded of him and not her husband and that is plain wrong. If her marriage is at the point where she WILL accept such a gift from another man, then something isnt right. |
She already stated that she is getting divorced, so OBVIOUSLY "something isn't right". And since she IS getting divorced, why does it matter what kind of gift she accepts from another man?
Even if she WEREN'T getting divorced I don't know how one can consider a sex toy "cheating". It's a toy, a thing, not a living, breathing human being. I'm not saying it would be RIGHT to accept the gift (
IF she were still in the marriage, that is). But how is it any different than HIM pleasuring himself with his own hand? All guys do that at some time. Does that mean every time a guy pleasures himself that he is cheating on his woman because he might be thinking of someone else and not his wife or girlfriend? Heck, I would MUCH rather my guy cheat on me with his own hand than another woman any day!
AND, just because the guy gave her the gift does not mean that she would be "thinking of him" when she uses it. She just might be thinking about whoever it is that turns her on!