I Am at the very beginnings of my divorce and my husband and I have been separated for over 8 months. Apparently he sees a Battery Operated Friend as cheating, and I don't. I actually think it's just an excuse to justify his renewed experience in dating. And is it still true that if you adamantly accuse someone of something, especially cheating, that chances are it's on your mind? Just wondering.
And no, I do not consider it an extramarital relationship. At least my BOF doesn't have to take a little blue pill and wait an hour before it's useful
The guy who sent it to me lives over 500 miles from me and was just a friend.