[houstoncougar]

you are right to be having the thoughts you are. That is a huge age difference and I do it all the time myself but, I unlike you are not in this for a life mate right now. I know I might get blasted for saying this but many older women have blinders on if they think that a man who is twenty or more years younger than them is going to look at them as a potential lifetime mate. Those men are very rare and very hard to find on top of it. In the last five years I have been in a couple of what I consider to be LTR's and one that lasted over a year but, I never thought of any of them as being a potential lifetime commitment. If that is what you are looking for then you would be wasting your time with someone his age who has never dated an older woman. I have a feeling for him it could be the novelty and also what I consider to be textreality (a place where people seem to fall in textlove) It usually wears off for them in about two weeks or less.