Hello Floridasunshine,
I assure you that not all young men want to find an older women purley for sex. I myself am 31 and in love with a 45 year old because of her personality and warmth, humor. I would prefer to meet an older woman for companionship and inteligent coversation. I am sure that the bedrom side would develop at its own pace and besides I perfer lovemaking to sex. Keep looking and I hope you find what you seek or maybe if you are in the UK, call in to see me!